Self love and arrogance/ego are not the same. ” I know the bible can trigger some, but isn’t this definition so great?
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil [what is evil? Denial of emotions which cause sickness? And in turn abuse?] but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”
This kind of self love leads to healing, compassion, and radiates out of your heart to those around you and down the family line both ways. Love the self. Heal the self; balance, unity, purity. What is your definition of Love?