I think it is okay to let fear take the reigns every now and then because by letting fear lead we learn that love is a far better boss. Fear is close minded. It says we cannot when maybe we can. Fear tells us not to try. Fear keeps us meek and safe.
The trick, I think, is to see that love keeps us safe too, but it does so in way that lifts us up, and it dares us to dream past fear, with fear, it even invites fear along, but it does not want to keep us weak.
Love does not want us to be meek. Love wants us to grow, nurtured, supported, strong. Listen to fear, as every feeling has a powerful lesson, but let love lead you both. ❤🦋